Day eight has been a bit cruisier then day seven, We rolled in bright and early in the morning to find that Burt has lost his prime window position and has been moved to another room. He now has a roommate named Don. Don just had his skull opened up to get rid of a brain hemorrhage so he is not always the most vibrant roommate, but apparently they had a little chat earlier. Don's wife Dale is lovely and sometimes keeps Burt company when we are not there.
Today's bribe was a fresh batch of Apple Cider donuts. We brought them in the afternoon, for the 3:00 shift, having already won over the morning nurses. Now we have to find a way to get some treats for the night shift.
Burt had a so-so sleep last night, but that's better than he has had so far. He is a little disoriented on a few things, but for the most part he is definitely more alert. We asked him to try and look at us when we are speaking to him and he is doing much better at that. That said the expression can be a little creepy, almost like Marty Feldman from Young Frankenstein.
The food tube is pumping away with no complications so far. The mild fever is due to... you guessed it - a Urinary Tract infection!!! Now he is on antibiotics and liquid tylenol injected by the quart. Also, they are taking out the catheter. This is very exciting and will give Burt a lot of relief as he has referred to it as a baseball bat all week. When we tried to comfort him by telling him it was the size of a cocktail straw, he simply said, "uh-huh... baseball bat."
Speaking of baseball, Burt is surrounded by die-hard Red Sox fans. Not an ideal position for a bed-ridden Yankees stalwart, especially as the Red Sox continue to lose and the Yankees are in first place. They seem to be giving him a by and sticking the needles in gently.
The lack of the swallowing has given dad a bit of thrush, so he has been given another throughly unsatisfying substance to wash his mouth with. He is rightly obsessed with swallowing as he has not been able to drink anything all week. As he can't swallow he has to suck out all of his saliva with a tube. Just to keep going with the baseball theme, the line of the day was that Dad would like to go to the same spitting camp that baseball players go to. As he says, "they can spit through their teeth, out the side of the mouth, anywhere they want."
As for body movement, the physical and occupational therapists worked with him for an hour and this was by far the highlight of the day. Burt kept seated in an upright position for ten minutes with minimal assistance and was able to pull both his shoulders back. The therapists were really impressed with how much better he was today, especially since he did it with his eyes closed. As for us, we have never been more proud of him. He worked so hard and faced his new condition head on, with the utmost of courage and no self pity.
It was a sight to see and we look forward to tomorrow.
We are all thinking about you guys and are wishing Uncle Burt all the best. Please send him a big hug from all the Feinbergs.
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Katie, Dave & Lilly
Hey there Sterns,
ReplyDeleteI'm sending some positive vibes and good thoughts here. It is great to see how positive you are all doing during this tough situation and how strong your tackling your speedy recovery, Burt.
I'm sure you'll be dancing an Irish Jig in no time, or, maybe more appropriatly, a Chora.
Stay strong everyone and thank you for the daily updates.
-Dave
Hi Unk - so glad to hear the good news about sitting up, etc. Sorry to hear about the Red Sox yahoos, but well, you can handle 'em....losers. I'm on a first name basis with Joel, your nurse, whom I've spoken to the last few days as a check in. Planning to visit in a week, and can't wait to give you a big kiss and tell you how much I love you. Love, N.
ReplyDeleteI've never had an apple cider donut. Sounds totally delish! Can't wait to hear what flavor you guys come up with for the overnight shift! I'm very glad you realize how important junk food is to health care workers. It really does keep us going!
ReplyDeleteOh Burt, do you realize that while you're stuck on TPN (total parenteral nutrition), your family is scarfing down Chinese food? Perhaps when you fill out your daily menu choices, you could request Thai- or Indian-flavored TPN. Of course, it would require having taste buds grafted into your stomach, but that shouldn't be a big deal.
Again, I'm totally impressed with how well you're progressing. Totally excellent! And congrats on getting a UTI so they had to remove the damn catheter.
Let me know as soon as you're ready for the required ballet lessons that are part of your rehab. I'll give you an old-friend discount. You WILL be required to wear a lovely tutu though. Did they tell you that or did I let the cat out of the bag? (Where the hell did that expression come from anyway? I don't want to even think about it.)
I hope you have a more comfortable night tonight, now that they've gotten rid of the baseball bat and you've got your antibiotics and Tylenol on board, plus you're getting nutrition, finally.
Just be happy you're not famous or this would be all over the television (with which I, personally, would be totally uncomfortable.)
love,
Nancy
Good Morning everyone-
ReplyDeleteI saw Elizabeth Gates on a morning show this morning, talking about strokes in young adults. It caught my attention, partly because of my fascination with medical science and partly because of Burt, who, I realize isn't in his twenties, he's in his teens (which is the last time I saw him).
I read the piece Elizabeth Gates wrote about her stroke and recovery. I found it quite fascinating. In it, she mentions defending her father, so I was curious to know who her father is. I discovered it's Prof. Henry Gates of "beer summit" fame.
Here's the link to the piece Elizabeth Gates wrote:
http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2010-08-22/stroke-at-20-something-it-happened-to-elizabeth-gates/
Here's the link to Wikipedia's bio of Henry Gates, which I also found quite fascinating:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Louis_Gates
Hope you had some decent sleep last night, Burt.
It's so damn important and it makes me so crazy that people and animal doctors and nurses just don't get it. When I was in vet school the only person I EVER heard mention this was a guy named Dr. Bernie Hansen, who's been the head of ICU at the vet school in North Carolina for the last 30 years (a great school). He came to Cornell to give a lecture on proper pain management, which lasted the whole morning. The first half of his talk was all about why it's so important; its connection to successful recovery from painful conditions, including surgery, of course. It was during this lecture that he mentioned the importance of good, uninterrupted sleep. I'd known for decades how important good sleep is, particularly the first night after surgery, having been through it myself a few times, so I was very annoyed and not at all surprised at the comment made here, the second post, I believe, that while you were in the ICU they woke you up every hour.
Hope you're feeling a bit stronger today and PT goes well. I'll be waiting to read today's post later.
Happy one-week-before-Rosh-Hashannah,
Thinking of you lots,
love,
Nancy
Dear Burt-I guess I will have to forgive your family (because they are really nice) for not sending this blog information. But this is a great thing. I am very happy to be home from Tanglewood and unfortunately they would not allow me to visit you before I left. Things are quite quiet here at Symphony Hall. It looks as if Levine is returning and all eyes will be on him as he opens the MET season next week. You missed another Garrick Ohlsson concert, a couple of BSO concerts and the Jazz Festival. I know you wanted to go to One Day University and I have arranged to have the CD's and DVD's sent to you. Next year there are plans to have it again and of course you will be there with me.
ReplyDeleteDavid is fine and always asks about you-his new CD with the Hawthorne String Quartet will be out on December 10th-very exciting! My Grandson, Ryan is wonderful and I have arranged my work schedule to be with him on Mondays-they had no problem with it as I do not have a summer and work most weekends in the winter.
It sounds as if you are making great progress but I know you have a lot of work ahead of you. Please hang in there. Give Connie and the boys a kiss for me and I will be checking on your progress everyday.
Love,
Randie